Hey. I'm a girl who just broke up with my girlfriend. (I'm bi) I really want to date again, but I'm at a loss.

I've only ever dated friends or people I knew who asked me out. How do I even go about finding someone to ask out on a date? I go to high school and I hang out with the few anarchists and artists there.

I'm fairly antisocial. It was a challenge to even make friends. How do I go about asking someone to do something so personal as going out with me?

I prefer girls, but I really just don't know how to attract people who I don't already know everything about.

Just be a whore and people will come to you.

... thats one way of looking at it..

well i would say you have to be social. not anti-social. a good way to do that is go out for sports and extracuricular stuff.

and as for attracting girls.. well i dont approve of it but it you decision so w/e .. i have no ideas on that. other than.. ^^ wat he said. lmao but for guys.. i think you should just start flirtin with a guy you might like and hell ask u out if he likes you back... but being a guy, idk how really girls attract guys.. we kinda just like girls i guess..

I dont think shes looking for approval.

@op: Just be yourself, if somebody isnt willing to except you as you then the aint worth the time or effort.

One way is to go out and talk to people, which I know is hard when you're anti-social. If you have a class with someone you think is cute, or see them in the hallway, just slowly get closer to them. Talk to them occasionally, and then every day, then a few times a day, etc etc. and get to know them to see if it's more than a little crush. Another thing that helps is if you have a mutual friend with that person. The three of you could hang out until you get to know the other better.

And if you don't have a crush/not sure who you want to date, then you don't have to. Give it time, find yourself, all that good stuff, until you know who you want to date. Also,doing that little kid stuff where you look at them, and when they look at you, you look away and smile, or just smile when they look at you, little flirty things like that, they work. Lol. At least, I know they do on girls. Never really tried with guys, but a friend of mine has and she said it works too.

ya.. i know but still just my opinion

You're an idiot. Please refrain from making comments such as you disapprove of their choice, unless you wish to explain why.

Your opinion is irrelevant to the topic.

typically i end up with guys i develop a close friendship with. if you find yourself wanting to get to know a girl better just invite her over for a movie or something and take it from there =]

Wow flame don't counterstrike for having an opinion that disagrees with other people's opinions. That's a little hypocritical isn't it? Fraxinus, I don't really know how to pick up chicks if you yourself are a chick, so I'd listen to Kasnia if I were you. Her advice seems to make more sense than everyone elses here.

All I got to offer is find someone and get to know them. Work hard to get over your shyness, and try to be social. It's tough, but not impossible. After that, just feel people out and see what their interests are, and flirt a little.

His opinion is that being lesbian/bi is wrong. Which is of course irrelevant to the discussion at hand.